Hanging in There
Posted November 30, 2016
on:A week ago we had my sister, Kelley’s Memorial Service
and thanks to her friends who stepped up and told great stories
that made us laugh, it was everything I had hoped for her….
Through my tears and heartache, I am trying to hold onto the
beautiful vision I had of her in the loving embrace of our parents.
The necklace she is wearing here is one she made and loved and the first thing
I went to find to hold close and feel her with me…
She didn’t have kids of her own, but sure loved mine, this was the one birth
she actually made it to , with my youngest….
It’s so hard to understand how someone so vibrant is gone.
She was so active and I grabbed her tennis shoes and have been wearing them as some days like the day
planning her service at the funeral home, I needed to walk in her shoes…
One day I went for a walk and i swear her shoes carried me and I actually felt a pep in my step,
that was definitely not coming from my broken heart….
She really got into biking after her divorce and I love this powerful picture
of her celebrating Day 2 and still going strong….
I picture her riding on to a new journey…
Dear Readers, Taking it one day at a time as the shock of this sudden unexpected loss of
a healthy 53 year old sister sinks in….
9 Responses to "Hanging in There"

What a beautiful and vibrant woman. You gave her a wonderful tribute. I am so sorry for your loss.


A lovely tribute to a beautiful and clearly vibrant woman. Deepest condolences on your loss.

November 30, 2016 at 8:52 pm
So sorry for the loss of your dear sister. I cannot imagine how you are coping. I will continue to pray for you.
November 30, 2016 at 10:11 pm
Thank you, this is very difficult and i am taking it one day at a time.