Well, Dear Readers, I Must Say that Today’s Outfit,
Made Me Very Happy…
I feel like it is a definite “Tracey” look, something I have been struggling to find
This had just the right amount of feminine touches like the lace and blinged out vest ,
along with the edginess of the the mostly black to feel the Ying/Yang I crave from outfits.
Sometimes in Summer I feel like the looks are getting too sweet with out the contrast that feels more like me.
The top is one my daughter bought via Burlington online, here and wanted to return but didn’t.
I rather like it , so glad I could confiscate it , after all I did pay for it…
I knotted it for today with the cropped pants for a more balanced proportion with capirs, but will layer it for fall worn long.
The linen Crops are by Old Navy and my favorite shoes of the season my
It was so nice to finally feel like I was in an outfit that made me feel good and more like myself.
It seems like maxi dresses and skirts aren’t the only look I can count on.
I really think adding in the vest for third completer piece is a huge key to my happiness levels,
as even in sneakers yesterday, I felt better with the white vest.
Third completer pieces truly are a big part of my style and I want them even in the heat of Summer…
I am grateful that despite my 6am wake up this morning after three hours of sleep that I managed not to go for a nap and have high hopes for an early bedtime and better rest tonight…I never take sleep for granted, lol!
I am grateful that after trying to go bowling very late in the afternoon and getting rejected for a lane due to league nights, that we opted for Chik Fil A for dinner to at least make something of our outing…
I am grateful for a phone call from my daughter and hearing her positive attitude to disappointment and chaos.
I am grateful for my insight and clarity about my dependency on third completer pieces, which now gives me a clear plan to move forward for the remainder of the season.
Today when getting dressed I decided to put together an Inspiration Look for
My Dear Readers for the July 4th Weekend
I think I was doing great, til I added the purple purse….
The other elements are great at adding a nod to the Patriotic colors without being overly obvious, which was my goal.
Funny thing is the tank was one I bought from Jane.com and my daughter didn’t like, so I inherited it and love it!
My Capris are from my favorite Jean designer, Diane Gilman via HSN
Funny, I just realized everthing I have here except my earrings are new for the season!
I found my necklace on Jane.com and I think the vest too…
You might say I love Jane.com, ssshhh don’t tell my husband!
We had a nice breeze today, so my wonderful plan to create the vertical lines with the white vest went South….
I had the blue and white covered with my jeans, shoes (clearance from Target) and the white in the polk a dots, necklace and vest…
I decided to add a touch of red to the look with the watch for a subtle nod to the Patriotic Holiday.
Then on the way out, I grabbed my purple purse as we headed to the bowling alley to get my son’s new performance ball drilled!
Dear Readers, I am always game for stretching myself and trying new things. Tonight I did that by going to my husband’s gym to test out the Sauna. I am happy to report that I stayed in for 15 minutes! It wasn’t as bad as I thought, once you get past the initial heat and panic of wanting to leave. I saw this happen to several women , who saw me in there toughing it out and came in to give it a go… I was lucky that my husband was there with me and that he had recommended I bring a large mouth bottled ice water to breathe into. Once I got use to the heat it wasn’t too bad and I made it easily to the 10 minute mark… Laughing at the young guy who came in after me stayed for 5 minutes before going out for a breath of cool air before returning. The final minutes were the hardest, but I had declared that I would last for 15 minutes and once I say I am going to do it, I have to!
Bottom line, I would absolutely do it again and in fact think it would be great for my sinuses…
Dear Readers, have you ever tried a Sauna?
I am grateful that the man who drilled my son’s bowling ball had such a great personality and was very thorough in making sure it was comfortable and a right fit. ( a complete opposite experience from the guy who drilled his first two balls a few months ago)
I am grateful to my son’s League Coach who recommended the new guy to us!
I am grateful that after bowling 2 games with his new ball, that my son described it as , “Awesome!”
I am grateful to my dear mother for her recognizing my “I can’t do it ” attitude and her reading me and reminding me often of “The Little Engine that Could” and turning me around to an adult who is open to new experiences. By the time you Read this my Dear Readers, It will be July 2nd, her birthday! Love you and miss you, MOM!
It’s a rare day when I allow myself to stew in negative emotions…
And today was one of those…
I am not feeling well with sinus issues and a sore throat,
that coupled with struggling in seeing my photos each day and being smacked in the face with my weight gain,
just took their toll on me today…
I went through several top combination before finally settling on this look for the day…
This cream lace top is one I’ve had since before my weight loss and have worn infrequently, but somehow today,
it felt just right for added texture and femininity that I was craving for the
Kate & Mallory pants that I bought for the season and are now sold out.
I added the lightweight sweater to create those wonderful vertical lines that are visually slimming.
It was up in the 90’s today , but there was a nice breeze!
With the stripes and texture of the lace top,
I kept the accessories simple for today with silver drop earrings and a cream watch,
you can see in other photos.
I decided to bookend my hair with the cognac Franco Sarto sandals, I stalked and purchased from Ebay.
After wearing my peep toe booties yesterday, I felt inspired to choose these for the same “pick me up” feeling only a pair of heels can give this stay at home mother who loves fashion.
This photo on Pinterest is bringing people to my blog a lot the last few weeks,
and each time I see it, I get that twinge knowing those pants no longer fit me…
Somehow I have to find the motivation to get my butt in gear and lose this weight as my 50th Birthday is just two months away! I can seem to get there, and get side tracked by my insomnia or headaches…I am blaming menopause, but have to stop allowing it to control me and take back control and responsibility…
I am grateful for my blog and Dear Readers as it kept me motivated to get dressed and play in my closet despite my not feeling well.
I am grateful that my son’s new performance bowling ball arrived today, a day early. We had plans to go to the alley with the person we want to drill it for him tomorrow, so perfect timing.
I am grateful that I had a better night’s sleep last night.
I am grateful that my son is going to see his home-school friends tomorrow, after not seeing them for a month since we stopped the bowling league.
I am grateful that I decided to give my son’s the trip to Boston to visit their sister for the 4th and her birthday on the 5th since I am feeling this awful sinus stuff right now.
I am grateful that my husband and I decided to spend our daughter’s birthday away from her by giving to my best friend’s daughter and putting up a loft bed for her..It will take the sting away of being without my daughter.
I am still following along this final week of the GYPO Summer Style Challenge,
but am going rogue, as I seem to do in the last week.
The outfit of the day was suppose to include a white lace top and printed shorts.
Of course challengers that work always sub more appropriate work wear pieces.
I was scheduled to lunch with a friend for day, and was dying to try my new Old Navy striped top for
some pattern mixing with my funky print skirt, which I’ve had for several years.
I originally paired this with flat thong sandals, but wasn’t feeling spunky enough.
After watching these Vince Camuto version on HSN today,
I thought I’d try my Payless version I bought last year.
These have the wonderful cone shape heel that I love from Franco Sarto.
This cutout version is so fun as well, and while you can’t tell this is called Peacoat ,
which in reality is a wonderful shade of Navy.
Dear Readers, If you haven’t tried a cone shape heel, yet, I HIGHLY recommend it. Of course if you have feet issues you are lucky that today in style there are so many wonderful flats options.
It truly was helpful to my day to put a spring in my step and feel vibrant in the skit and shoe combo.
A shame I missed the lunch due to not feeling well…
I am grateful for a sunny day , after several rainy -grey ones.
I am grateful my daughter scheduled an appointment to go get the skin rash that she’s been fighting for a week looked at.
I am grateful that I decided to reschedule my lunch as I was seriously sleep deprived, with nausea and a headache, due to a panic attack call from my daughter at 5 am…
I am grateful that my husband had a break in the day and was able to run the van to Goodwill, after my closet purging these past few weeks since our Vegas trip.
I am grateful that I stuck it out today without napping , with great hope that an early bedtime is in my future.
I am grateful for the fun of the anticipation of the mail arrival of my son’s first performance bowling ball, as his dedication to taking private lessons has prepared him for.
Easy dressing when in a hurry like I was today,
Is as easy and finding a Black and White Print Dress,
Adding a Color for accent and getting out the door…
All I see in this photo is my very pale legs and the recognition that
I am not doing a very good job of keeping up with the faux tanning this season.
I love this black and white dress that I thrifted and have worn often because I can go classic without adding color or I can add a pop of every color in the rainbow and it’s a four season versatile piece.
Worn here with flats, its a great Mom on the Go
Worn in winter with a moto jacket and heeled boots,
It feels much more sasssy and special.
I haven’t worn this dress enough and really want to go through my dresses and pair them down more,
so gems like this one get more use.
If you are looking for short sleeve sweaters to add to your wardrobe,
I’ve had mine for several years and they are all in great condition and hold up well.
I am so grateful that my son’s bowling coaches agree that he is ready for his first performance ball and I ordered him it today. This is the first sport he’s loved and worked so hard to learn. He has learned how to hook the ball, now he just needs the ball to do the work for him!
I am grateful that my husband and I are able to take him to private lessons and that he appreciates them and for the added bonus that bowling has given this child, which is better coordination!
I am grateful for the fun I had with my son in the kitchen and his enthusiasm for cooking and wanting to do more and more!
I am grateful that my youngest helped out by unloading the dishwasher the very first time I asked!
I am grateful that my photo shoot went off today as the thunder and clouds were heading in , as we’ve been under storm watches all evening.
I have this shrug in 3 colors and I’ve had them for several years…
I never tire of them…
Since I love prints so much, wearing two solid pieces together often feels like it’s missing something.
This wonderful shrug solves the problem because it adds in the element of texture.
Slinky Brand via HSN is where I got them and while this bright version and style isn’t currently available,
they have a version in pastels you can find Here and a lace option Here
I even kept the necklace the same pink color to add another element of texture.
I bought this one from Steinmart years ago and highly recommend
that store for great jewelry at decent prices.
Due to this crazy early heat this year, I’ve found myself turning to the wonders of
These are from Jane.com , Old Navy and Chadwick’s as well.
Dear Readers, What Items are you loving for the season?
I am grateful that melatonin has given me two decent nights rest. Last night we had crazy storms and I didn’t fall asleep until after 4 am.. but I slept late, so it all worked out well!
I am grateful for my friend for texting and asking us to join her for an impromptu bowling get together.
I am grateful that today we made plans to get out more, as I had been doing a lot of closet and cabinet purging and not going anywhere much since returning from Vegas… Of course my lack of sleep lead to some of that as well.
I am grateful that plane tickets are purchased and my two boys are heading to Boston for July 4th to visit their sister, as my youngest has been wanting a vacation with them and my daughter’s birthday is July 5th!
I swear my favorite article of clothing is a maxi dress or skirt…
It is so funny that a few years back I steered clear of them due to my petite height.
I could live all Summer in them!
This pink one I bought last season on Beyond the Rack which is now Choxi.
I was pleasantly surprise that it was a Cato brand from that site.
I bought this yellow Joan Rivers Jacket from Ebay
as a reaction to her death and have been chomping at the bit
to wear it with this pink, purple , yellow and orange floral maxi.
Not the best photo, but my silly photographer came outside with no shoes
and his feet were burning on the concrete…
I loved how this outfit came together and felt so wonderful in it…
Can a wear a maxi everyday, please?
I am grateful for several phone calls from my daughter who is back in Boston. I miss her terribly!
I am grateful that my youngest opened up to me about how hard it’s been without his XBox (it broke) to communicate with his homeschooling group. He’ll have a new one shortly!
I am grateful for Parents Night out and all the wonderful information on new curriculum ideas.
I am grateful for the wonderful friendships and how caring this group of mother’s are for each other.
I am grateful that we made plans to bowl together soon and booked our next Parent’s Night Out!